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Stories about Jan

From:
Brian Kirchner

I met Jan in Honors English at Arapahoe High School. Just after she passed away, I shared what she wrote in my yearbook with her family gathered around her:

"Brian,

Well, it's been quite a year, hasn't it? (two years, three years?) I shall try to cut down on the trite crap that is usually written in these things. Anyway, the only thing I can think of to write to you is to remember...remember all the crazy things we've done, said, etc., like going flying at midnight or going skiing in the middle of the week or whatever--because that's what really counts; what you remember. If you don't remember, it's not worth it anyway. So I won't say anything tremendously profound because I won't forget you and hope you won't forget me either while you're at CSU or whatever. Let's get together next year and ski or talk or anything. Remember, love Jan."

This background photo was taken last October from her deck, of the contrails she loved watching, that formed as planes headed to Denver.

Jan, I will always remember your beauty, spirit, laughter and smile.

Your friend,

Brian (bsk)

From:
Debbie Frazin (Greenberg)

I worked with Jan in the rental shop for 4-5'years with Kelly and gang. It was some of the best times in my life. We really had fun. I'm most grateful that I got to reconnect with Jan in August 2015 and again in April 2016 when visiting from st. Louis. My son enjoyed shoveling her decks (which were covered from the spring snow that occurred just before their return from a trip overseas). Ironically, shoveling snow was one of my favorite jobs working in the rental shop. Oh, I've got so many great Jan stories, I'd love to share. Please keep me posted of details. Peace and blessings. Debbie

From:
Kelly Cantrell

Jan saved me from flipping burgers at Paradise Warming House and became one of my closest friends. The CBMR Rental Shop was more than a job for many of us, it was a family. Jan & Ric created a workplace that welcomed all sorts of fun. Lots of ski breaks, epic moonlight ski parties, trays of shots at the Talk of the Town, Taco Tuesday’s @ Rafters, houseboat shenanigans @ Lake Powell, bike treks in Moab... there was always something happening with the rental shop crew!

 

I remember so my iconic Jan things. Her long blonde hair, big smile, awesome heartfelt laugh, flipped up shirt collar under a sweater - her love for golden retrievers, powder ski days, hairball jeep tours, tropical vacations - her stubborn determination, generous compassion, fun-loving pranks.

 

Our friendship outlasted jobs, loves, dogs (aka fur kids), homes. As things changed throughout the years miles distanced us and monthly phone calls became e-mails several times a year. I regret missing out on those opportunities to connect with her. I will miss her vibrant soul. She changed my life by giving me a job and helped set me on a course to find my heart’s desire with her unconditional love and support. 

 

The years spent in Crested Butte were some of the best of my life and there are few memories that Jan is not a part of. Jan, I carry within me your fearless nature and honor you by always taking the path less traveled. I love you.

From:
Cherry Freeman
 

"Girls just wanna have fun!"  and we did!!!

 

Jan and I connected in Crystal & at my parents cabin at the top of Daniels Hill, in Marble before we were teens!  We were like little goats tearing around the mountains. Horse back riding, dirt-biking and hiking. Swinging from the cable bridge over the Crystal River by our knees!! And oh the adventures in the Marble Quarries. With too many to remember water fights in the water-ditch!! To say nothing of all the mines we explored in little plastic boats..with candles in case we hit dead air! !! Duh!!

And after we grew up it continued..with Jan's wicked funny humor and quick wit we were constantly rolling in laughter!  Oh that 1000 watt smile!!

My kids grew up camping & jeeping in the mountains with Jan & I. She had names for them all..Kiirsten=Kikster, and her husband Jeff=Jeffy Poo.

I was sooo very blessed to have spent 5 days with her this past September,  RZRing! We did Pearl Pass, Taylor Pass, Crystal into Schofield Park over Schofield pass. To Crested Butte via Emerald Lake! Then from Crested Butte over Paradise Pass back to Marble!!  Chris accompanied us from Crystal to Crested Butte and back to Crystal..more laughter and remembering times past!

Jan loved driving my RZR..she couldn't beleive that it could so easily go over the gnarlest terrain!!

We laughed and cried and were, as always awed by the beauty!! The weather was

amazing..a special gift!!

We went to the Bull Riding at the stock show 5 yrs ago, after my knee replacement and got handicap parking/seating..we thought we were pretty hot shit!!! LOL

There will be a huge hole in mine and my kids hearts that no one else will ever fill!!

 

Love you forever my dear friend,

Cherry

From:
Janelle Saad

I don't know if you will get this but Lynn Fullerton informed me of Jan's death. I am so so very sorry for her suffering, her life too brief, and to the world for the empty space she leaves.  You didn't have to spend a lot of time with Jan to feel like she was with you on your own path.  Frankly, I don't see how the planet can stay on its axis without her energy and force of nature existence to keep in on track!  Jan was one of the best things about my

time at Colorado College and the moments we were able to squeeze in during the many years since.  I loved exchanging a joke or two by email and I always felt her friendship in my heart. My heart is broken but she stays with me, and we will always share that mediation space as we sit together in the mountains in the Colorado sun.  That, and Jan will always hold the title for best imitation of Louis Armstrong ever!

From:
Dan Coffey (cousin)
 
My cousin Jan was a good friend, the kind who stayed a friend over her lifetime, even if you didn’t fully deserve it.  

 

We were all Crystal Cousins, My earliest memories of Jan involve the arrival of her parents, Virginia and Chuck, with their trailer tent, which was usually set out near the one-room Sperry Cabin in Crystal, Colorado, close to where the giant red poppy flowers would erupt each year.

 

The Sperry Cabin is located very near Maxine’s cabin and served as an adjunct gathering place for late-night rounds of Monopoly or cards illuminated by white-gas lamps, a staple, along with flashlights, for those who spent summers in the circa 1890 mining ghost town, Crystal City.  Jan was a skilled gamer with a head for numbers and creative mischief.

 

The Fraser girls were fun and tough.  They were also very smart, which made them a challenge. Their mother, Virginia Fraser, was a hoot, and that too made them all a formidable team.

 

Jan embodied the notion that girls and boys were equal, assuming the boys could keep up. She did everything with enthusiasm and wit and raw power!. 

 

In the summertime Crystal of our youth, all matters of importance were divided by gender: girls versus boys, which almost always disfavored boys by virtue of both numbers and pure political power.  Women ran the place! 

 

Most often this divide between the sexes played itself out dramatically in water fights, a ritual in warm weather that could erupt several times in a single day, fed as it was by an endless supply of very cold water and the siren call of a water ditch down one or both sides of Crystal’s Main street.  In early years the southern ditch was abandoned, leaving only the northern branch, though it was plentiful enough for any major skirmish.

 

Jan excelled at water fights and was a ringleader, contriving new and devilish attacks.  Among her most ingenious initiating maneuvers was pouring a bucket of water onto an opponent still resting in bed by raising it up over the upstairs dividing walls then extant in the original Crystal Hotel owned by Dorothy Tidwell, Helen and Edna’s youngest sister.  The Crystal Hotel was a hotbed of mischievous and beguiling behavior.

 

Jan was also the object of considerable male attention because she presented a genuine physical challenge.  With speed, agility, organizational skills, a devoted following of female defenders, she was incredibly difficult to wrestle into the ditch and it required a concerted effort by at least one and often far more than two strong male opponents.  These male attempts upon the citadel were common, but success far less so. 

 

Jan was a good writer, a delightful communicator who wrote as she spoke, with details and a cadence that made you laugh.  I kept many of her letters.

 

Though Maxine Fowler died of cancer in August 1973, while she was alive, she was the center of Crystal life for many, and her memory remains strong in those who knew her during those wonderful times.  Maxine was plain fun and she knew how to let others have enjoyment and excitement, encouraging exploration of the dangerous Crystal environs, playing games, water fighting with abandon, and teasing.

 

Jan loved Maxine.  Maxine loved Jan.  Jan also loved the intertwined mixture that was Maxine and Crystal; a fact that we repeatedly shared on those many occasions when the history and fate of Crystal was front and center.  The place and the experience were centered on the approach to life embodied in Maxine Fowler that was carried on by Jan Fraser throughout her life.

 

Maxine Fowler was my parent-in-lieu while I was in Colorado, and Jan would come to be Maxine’s able assistant in the vitally necessary process of repairing and refurbishing the Crystal cabins.  Jan poured her soul into Crystal, loved it and always wanted to be a part of it.

 

On many occasions Jan fondly recalled the hard work and awful circumstances, belting out laughter with her characteristic enthusiasm as she recounted emptying the filthy manure laden cabin attics, sawing or cutting wood, and making repairs. Needless to say, when mining cabins sit idle for decades and shelter overwintering mammals, a collection of materials wait stubbornly to be cleared out, and Jan did what it took to get the job done. Those who now live comfortably in those cabins should thank her for her Aegean Stable-like efforts.

 

Jan cared and looked out for people. One Saturday evening during the summer of 1992, Jan, my future wife, Pepper and I drove to the Snow Bridge near the Devil’s Punchbowl on the road to Schofield Pass.  We sought a load of snow to make traditional hand-cranked ice cream.  As we reached the upper stretch before the Snow Bridge we encountered three mountain bikers, two men and a woman.  The woman had fallen and injured her leg, causing her to limply walk her bike. It was nearing dark.

 

On the return trip, Jan suggested that we rescue the woman, who had fallen again due to her first injury.  We piled her in and delivered her to Crystal, inviting all three to camp near town and come participate in the traditional evening festivities and ice cream manufacture in Maxine’s cabin. 

 

It was during that party that the rescued trio sheepishly confessed deep embarrassment at being helped.  Everyone knew it was no shame, as the Crystal environment is extremely harsh.

 

“But you don’t understand,” they explained,  “we work as Search and Rescue in Las Vegas.”  True to form, Jan helped rescue the rescuers.

 

Now we are all left with our many memories of Jan to keep and guide us.  A model of courage and humor unto the end, she is beloved and will be deeply missed.

From:
Cyndi Burrage
 
"Hey there! How was your day? " For years this is what I heard daily on the other end of the phone whether I called Jan or she called me. It was a familiar and comforting opening to endless hours of conversations. Jan listened attentively and never failed to share her thoughts or opinions no matter the subject. She sometimes told me things I wanted to hear and sometime things I did not want to hear but needed to hear. I loved her honesty be it supportive or brutal. It was always for my own good and came from a place of caring and concern. She was like a big sister I never had. Now I have to keep my inner WWJD. What Would Jan Do? Or in situations where I need to be decisive and strong I will channel my inner Jan.  
In 2009 she offered to let me and my daughter used her condo in Gulf Shores Alabama out of the blue. It was the nicest thing anyone had ever done for me! After that trip I finally got to meet her beloved Roy whom I had heard so much about and their wedding years earlier. From our many lunches and hanging out in Winter Park for a weekend to our girls week at the beach and her countless trips down to see me, HSN and the beach after I moved here I was truly blessed to have a best friend in Jan.   She put her heart and soul into every friendship she had. When she was with you she was 100% there in those moments. She just had a way of letting everyone know they were special to her. What a gift she had. We were all so blessed!
From:
Greg Gibbs
 
It makes me so sad to hear the news of Jan's passing. I met her at CC and we remained close in spite of the fact that we did not have close contact over the past decade.  I remember her great smile, the funny names she used making reservations and her outrage when a stranger commented to her that he wished he could drive around in a Saab Turbo that some guy had bought for her...the car was new and at the time her pride and joy. I also remember her competitive spirit and her wonderful laugh.

On a visit to Aspen Jan gave a mogul lesson to a tourist that was a strong skier but did not understand the bumps.  Jan took him for a couple of runs showing him technique and when it looked like he had it she led him down the slope right above the  main lodge at a blistering pace.  He held up well and as they sprayed to a stop there were many appreciative tourists and skiers on the deck.  A couple applauded and several said WOW.  Then Jan took off her cap and shook out her long blonde hair and one of the  onlookers said,  THAT WAS A GIRL?  NO WAY!!!  It made her really happy to hear that and a little pissed off that people could not believe girls could ski like that well.

I share your grief.
From:
Geneva Fowler (cousin)
 

Keep on laughing Janny!

There are no words that describe Jan. She's one of a kind. I grew up with cousin Jan, who always showed up in Crystal with her big laugh. Typical Jan, last time I spoke to her she wanted nothing to do with talking about herself and what she was going through, with that big, hearty laugh that always makes me smile, but instead wanted to hear all about me and my life. It's like prying teeth to get her to talk about something negative. She wouldn't have any of it. Such a giving and loving person, I have so many great memories of her, but my favorite would be when I was too little to go on the hike that everyone is going on. She took me on our own hike, albeit to the meadow, but that was a lot for me at the time. Took her time to do it, returned me exhausted and then I'm sure caught up with everyone else. That's who she was, she took her time to share herself and her happiness with others. I am truly grateful for such a wonderful cousin. She is deeply missed. Love you Janny! Keep laughing! xox Geneva

From:
Christopher Cox (cousin)
 

When I think of Jan I have to smile.  All I can remember is her contagious smile, her one of a kind laugh and her larger than life personality.  Jan was definitely "one of a kind" and will always be so dear to me.  My first memories of Jan take me back to warm Summer days high in the mountains of Crystal City.  I was very young and was not readilly included in the water fights and games going on with my "older cousins."  Jan would always take time aside to make sure I got a fresh bucket of water over the head or put into the ditch head first, it always made me feel like I was part of the gang!  Years later, not long after graduating high school I moved to Crested Butte to be closer to Crystal.  Fortunately for me Jan also lived there!  She gave this guy who had nothing to his name a place to stay and a "recommendation" for a job.  I got my season pass, worked on the mountain and had a second job at the grocery store.  Snowboarding every day and hanging with Jan was a blast.  I'll never forget the first time Jan asked me to ski with her.  I'm about 19 and getting pretty good at snowboarding - not to mention quite an ego.  I'm thinking to myself, we'll this will be amusing skiing with my "older" female cousin.  We ride the lift up and then she says just follow me.  I soon found out that following and keeping up with Jan on the slopes is next to suicide!  She only had one speed - and that was way faster then me!  I have such great memories of Jan in C.B.  Years later Jan and Roy would come to Hawaii and make more great memories sipping Mai Tai's by the pool.  I feel so blessed to have spent a lovely September day this last year with Jan and Cherry.  They came up to Crystal (driving like maniacs) in Cherry's RZR.  I had never been in one and they asked me to drive them to Schofield.  I had a blast driving those two crazy gals up there but then they say "let's go a little further."  We'll, we ended up in the town of Crested Butte - and it's illegal to drive the RZR on the highway.  Jan just said "go ahead" I know people here!  And of course, she did.  We had cocktails and visited old friends and then a beautiful late afternoon drive back to Crystal.  Thank you Jan for the great memories I have with you.  You have been a true friend and such a generous, loving person.  I will always love you.

Aloha my lovely cousin.

From:
Bob Casey
 

I thought the world of Jan. I had gotten to know Jan over the past year or two at Prologis.  We were both relatively new to the company.  I introduced myself to her in the break area and immediately hit it off with Jan.  I found kindred spirits in our rebellious think-out-of-the-box attitudes.  I really knew we were kindred spirits when a guest speaker came to talk to us about succeeding in the market place.  The speaker said, I have two free books for whoever wants them.  The only two people in that room of about 100 that just walked up to claim our books was Jan and me.  We both had a friend in one another we could trust.  Later, we both did a lip sync to Michael Jackson's Man in the Mirror at the golf tournament.  It was so funny how well she played that off.  There is a video of it somewhere I need to get from the folks at work.  

Jan was so unique and wise.  Often times I found myself in Jan's cube asking her for advice.

From:
Maureen Gupta
 

Jan was my first and best Crystal friend (sorry, DJ, Denver, Sharon & Debbie!). Sensing a chump, she tried out quite a few pranks on me until we started inflicting them on others. We hunted for snipe, measured me for a coffin, and of course managed a few ditch dunkings. Once we climbed the outside of the old hotel, grabbed Craig's car keys, rolled his car down toward the Mill, and returned the keys, all while he was sleeping. Big shock for him in the morning! She introduced my sister and me to Crystal parlor games, which my kids to this day have not figured out. And I'm not telling them, either. Jan taught me how to ride Western, and which horses to keep away from each other on our rides into Lead King Basin.

 

Jan had the heartiest laugh I know, and made everyone feel at ease with her friendliness. We would write letters to each other during the year, until such time as the Gordons would again vacation in Crystal, always mid August. What a dear friend! I miss her.

From:
Betsy Dowell Gilbertson
 

Jan was the great friend of my older sister Sue Poet, so she was at our house a lot. I think she coined the term "Rackafrats" along with my dad, and "Bobber" for our little brother Bob. Once in high school she helped me with a computer program when I was stuck. I tagged along with Jan and Sue and Brian skiing. Coming down the cat walks at Winter Park she always sang this song which comforts me now "Jerimiah was a bulldog. He was a good friend of mine. I never understood a single word he said but I helped him drink his wine. He always had some mighty fine wine. Singin' Joy to the World! All the Boys N Girls now. Joy to the fishes in the deep blue sea. Joy to you and me." -Three Dog Night. Jan was Joy!

From:
Erin Gardiner
 

I knew Jan from our time together at Western Union until we worked together at Prologis. There was a three year window between both of those experiences until Jan arrived at Prologis. I can remember feeling giddy at the thought of seeing her daily again! I loved Jan so very much and admired her strength and courage as she faced cancer. She was always looking out for others to the very end. I will miss my dear friend and offer love and condolences to the Crawford and Fraser family. Love, Erin

From:
Kiirsten (Kiki) Phillips
 

I have many memories of Jan and the idea of nicely consolidating those into a few sentences or paragraphs seems almost impossible. When I think back on the times I've spent with her the common thread is her endearing laughter and sense of humor that was always on point. We had a longstanding family joke that Jan's house was like an icebox and she got the biggest kick out of that. To her defense, there was no shortage of blankets. She loved razzing people and I was no exception. My husband was never Jeff, he was "Jeffy Poo" from day one. A good ribbing was par for the course with Jan, but it was always followed by her infectious, bellowing laughter which usually left you laughing right along with her in spite of yourself. I'm not sure if there's a better memory you can have of someone. We love you Jan and miss you dearly.

From:
Cynthia Somers
 

I met Jan when I started consulting at Prologis in 2015.  I work very closely with her team and was able to experience her wit, her business acumen, her friendliness and even her stubbornness first hand.  I remember her persistence one day making sure Erin and I knew that Talbots was having a great sale, so I took her advice and got some great buys.  J  She knew how proud I was of my recent home purchase and she surprised me with a thoughtful housewarming gift...a planter shaped like a bike because she knew my love of cycling.  She had already started her treatments and I was in awe that she had any time to think of me.  I will always cherish this gift.

I wish I knew Jan back in the day.  As an avid skier myself, I can picture us skiing together.  She loved to hear about my outdoor adventures and always asked what my weekend plans were.  I hope to ski Berthoud Pass this year and am sad that I won’t be able to tell her all about it.  In early December I took a certification exam that I had been preparing for and she made sure to tell me she would be thinking of me on that day.  She was always thinking of others, even during her illness.

I can’t write about Jan and forget to mention Joe.  Joe is the awesome coffee maker on our floor at work that makes every kind of coffee you could want – latte, macchiato, espresso – with freshly ground beans and frothy milk.  Joe was Jan’s idea for the office.  She had travelled to our Amsterdam office, saw theirs, and immediately put the wheels in motion to get one for us.  It has the spirit of a mini coffee shop, with funny jokes on the wall and a blank chalk board for thoughts of the day.  Pure Jan.

As we all know, her laughter was amazing and contagious.  I could hear her across the room and somehow felt better knowing she was there.  She inspired us all, whether it was sporting her awesome blond wig or wrapping gifts for the kids at Sable Elementary school just a few weeks ago.  She never stopped smiling.  It will be impossible to ever forget Jan, she left an indelible mark on our hearts and smiles.  Cheers to you, Jan.

From:
Pedro Sobrado
 

I meet Jan when she became my manager in Western Union somewhere around 2008-2009. Of course I couldn’t know at that moment how lucky I was, soon I learned what an awesome manager, person, friend she was. I learned a lot from her, in all senses. I loved how she enjoyed her life. Until today I can hear her laughing I clearly remember her voice sound and her smile. I loved her smart sharp liberal mind we could discuss politics and get to the same conclusions, we clearly were on the same side. A few times I spent a wonderful time in her house with her, Roy and the dogs T and Bella and I cherish all the pics I made there have many of them, days in Winter Park also added to the list. After she left WU our friendship got even stronger I guess already missed her so much. So when she left WU my agenda every time I arrived to Denver was to rent a car and drive directly the Jan & Roy  even before the hotel and regardless of how many hours  I spent before on the flight. I loved that place and the time with her, Roy, her dad and the dogs. She treated me like no one else in Denver introduced me to their friends and helped me around as needed. Jan staying in Denver without you will never be the same you leave a huge empty space in my heart. Its impossible to write all Jan meant to me as a friend she was  the kind of friend that left a deep footprint in my life with all her details, full of life, fantastic attitude a fighter and a positive spirit.  I will miss all conversations with her the laughs the smiles and the hugs to say good bye….. but I know this is not the end energy (spirit-sould) does not disappear it only transforms it self this is just a new beginning for her as somewhere was born again a smart joyful positive little girl that soon will be jumping on a trampoline laughing and sharing with many again that spirit Jan was.

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